The True Nature of Harmony: A Soulful Reclamation
- Dorry Aben
- May 30
- 4 min read
For much of my life, I believed harmony meant comfort. I imagined a harmonious life as one where only the people, experiences, and emotions I resonated with would remain—while everything else would gently fall away. The idea was appealing: life edited and refined into a soft echo of only what I liked, what felt “good,” what aligned with my sense of peace.
There was some truth in that belief. Certainly, it's important to choose what nourishes and supports us. But now, from where I stand, I see how incomplete that definition of harmony really was.
Today, I understand harmony not as the absence of contrast or challenge, but as the full inclusion of all that is. True harmony is not curated—it's expansive. It doesn’t exclude what is uncomfortable, unfamiliar, or difficult. Instead, it sees the beauty and intelligence even in the chaos, even in the things we once wished away.
This shift in perspective came through a deeper embodiment of my soul.
From Remembering to Embodying the Soul
We often hear the phrase “you are a soul having a human experience.” For a long time, that lived only in my mind—a lovely idea I believed in but didn’t always feel. But slowly, something deeper began to happen. I stopped merely remembering that I was a soul and started embodying it. I let the essence of the soul take root in every cell of my being.
It wasn’t about escaping my humanness or bypassing emotion. It was about letting my body sing the melody of the soul in its infinite, sparkly beauty. From this place, harmony ceased to be something I needed to create or maintain. It became something I recognized—already present in everything around me.
When I experience life through the eyes of the soul, I feel one with all things. I no longer feel the need to push anything away, label it as wrong, or rearrange life to match a limited idea of what harmony should look like.
The Soul Sees Harmony in Everything
The soul doesn’t categorize or compartmentalize. It doesn’t create separation between “right” and “wrong,” or “good” and “bad.” It simply is, and it recognizes itself in all expressions of life. When we embody this way of being, a profound shift occurs: we begin to feel a quiet resonance with everything.
That resonance is not always pleasant in the way we’re taught to define it. Sometimes it includes grief, uncertainty, anger, or disorientation. But even those emotions, when met from the soul, carry their own sacred music. They, too, belong to the great symphony of life. They, too, hold a kind of harmony—if we can listen.
The need for life to be different fades away. We no longer feel the pressure to fix or control the unfolding. Instead, we meet it. We witness it. We harmonize with it.
And this meeting, this deep “yes” to life as it is, reveals the true nature of peace—not as the absence of conflict, but as the presence of wholeness.
A World Embodied in Soul
As I sit with this awareness, I feel profoundly moved. To live this way, to feel life this intimately and to connect with others from this depth, is an unspeakable gift. It is also, I believe, the direction humanity is moving toward.
I see a future where our world is no longer shaped by fear, control, or the need for separation—but by the soul's wisdom. A world where we remember that we are not enemies or strangers, but reflections of the same divine intelligence, each wearing a different form.
Imagine it: a planet inhabited by souls, each fully anchored in their human experience, yet remembering the vastness they came from. A world where we don’t need to fix one another to feel safe, and we don’t need to all agree to live in peace. A world where harmony is not manufactured, but remembered.
This is not wishful thinking. It’s a reality already awakening in many hearts. Every time we drop beneath our judgments, our defenses, our mental filters—and meet life from the stillness of the soul—we are embodying this new world.
What Harmony Feels Like in Practice
Harmony, as I now understand it, is not a perfect day or a seamless relationship. It’s not about having your external life arranged just so. It’s about how you meet each moment—especially the difficult ones.
It’s being able to hold space for the full spectrum of your humanity while still feeling deeply anchored in your divinity.
It’s greeting someone who triggers you, and instead of contracting, staying open.
It’s walking through pain without losing touch with beauty.
It’s trusting life even when you don’t understand it.
And most of all, it’s knowing that you don’t have to escape any part of yourself or your experience to feel whole.
Harmony Doesn’t Exclude—It Embraces
The beautiful paradox is this: when we stop trying to make life feel harmonious by excluding what we dislike, we actually begin to experience true harmony.
Because harmony is not perfection—it’s presence. It’s the vibration of love meeting life exactly as it is.
So many of us have been taught that harmony comes after fixing, healing, or improving. But what if harmony is here—available right now in the messy, wild, sacred middle of it all?
When you can meet the fullness in everything, you don’t need life to be different. Because everything you meet—no matter how it looks—feels harmonious.
Not because it changed, but because you did.
A Final Invitation
If there’s one message I hope this reflection leaves you with, it’s this: harmony is not a place you arrive at after cleaning up your life—it’s a way of being you return to by remembering your soul.
You don’t have to reject anything. You don’t have to wait until you’re more healed, more enlightened, more peaceful.
Right here, right now, you can begin to see with the eyes of the soul.
Feel the resonance beneath the noise.
Let every cell sing the melody of your being.
And know that this harmony isn’t something you need to create.
It’s something you already are.

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